Russian Women St Petersburg
I have sent a letter to a lady I really liked, but she didn’t
answer to me, and I don’t know if I should give up or try
again?
First of all you have to remember that Internet at home
is still a luxury thing for many Russians, so give her at
least 3-4 days to answer to you. If you didn’t get an answer,
try to send a small message – just do double check if she
got your first letter - it could happen that letter was
lost by an Internet provider and she didn’t have idea that
you wrote to her.
Are Russian women's
personalities different from Western women?
Yes,
they are a bit different. They don't have a different type
of character, and they also love shopping and chatting.
They are human beings and they are definitely not perfect.
The main difference is that they are much more patient and
can tolerate things that Western women will never be able
to bear. They are more considerate and dependable. They
are partners, not competitors.
Another important difference is that Russian women (and
Russians in general) have very low self-esteem. While Western
women think that they are goddesses and able to cope with
anything on their own, a Russian woman will rarely leave
a bad (really bad) husband because of the fear that she
won't find another one. For many years the state and men
have been oppressing them, and they don't think much about
themselves.
In Russia there is a shortage of good men available for
marriage. This is due to a higher death rate among Russian
men, these men have one of the lowest life expectancies
rates of any developed country. Also due to the poor economic
situation in Russia many men do not want the added responsibility
of a wife and family and can not support them.
Western men have a reputation for treating their wives and
family very well, they are viewed as being more loyal, reliable,
sober, and intelligent than most Russian men
Russian women are well groomed, stylish and intelligent
(as are Russians in general) but they pay much less attention
to sport and other aspects of healthy life-style. Nevertheless,
they are rarely overweight - probably, because of permanent
stress and food that is expensive. And they still walk a
lot because they don't have cars
Are Russian women interested in living in any other
countries apart from America?
Many women are interested in particular countries like Germany,
Austria, Italy, France, England, Australia, Canada and others.
Usually the reason for that are family members or friends
who are staying there.
Actually, very few women would like to go only to the US,
most of them don't mind about a country if it's the right
man.
I would like to write
to some Russian ladies but I am not out to look for a wife
immediately, rather a friend first and then see what happens.
Do ladies expect more?
You can state clearly from the very beginning that you are
interested in establishing friendship first. The majority
of the women seeking partners do expect more, but if they
decide to keep contact with you, it will mean that they
accept your position.
There is nothing wrong with your position, and if you don't
feel ready for starting a long term relationship right now,
you may try to start with friendship. Beware though, that
a lady can accept somebody else's offer, even if she really
likes you, just because she is not sure about your intentions
Can Russian
women speak English?
Most of the ladies who apply to dating agencies can at least
read and understand English. About 25% can speak some English,
and probably 10% speak English well. In bigger cities like
Moscow and St Petersburg
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